Expert Reveals The Everyday Habit That Could Be Ruining Your Sex Life

A relationship expert has highlighted a common habit that may be silently affecting people’s sex lives—something many don’t even realize they’re doing.

People take time to reflect on their relationships at various points, evaluating what’s working and what’s not.

When it comes to intimacy, that reflection often brings up frustrations and a sense that things aren’t as exciting or fulfilling as they once were.

For some, these realizations are confusing. For others, they might motivate them to improve their relationships.

But according to an expert, a seemingly small yet impactful habit could be quietly making intimacy issues even worse.

Sex therapist and relationship expert Leigh Norén has pointed out the struggles many couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life.

While there are several factors that can influence intimacy, she says there’s one habit that stands out as a major issue—yet it often goes unnoticed.

Speaking to the Mirror, Norén explained that many people tend to look for distractions or temporary solutions rather than actually addressing the deeper issues in their relationships.

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Instead of working through these challenges with their partner, they often end up glued to their screens, endlessly scrolling through social media, or seeking validation from online interactions rather than from their significant other.

She explained: “People often feel bored in their relationships and stressed in general in life. We’re all stretched thin, and as a result, we’ve forgotten how to seek out and experience pleasure.”

“Instead, we look for quick fixes and ways to dissociate, like scrolling through reels, watching memes, and indulging in junk food.”

“It’s like we’ve all forgotten how to truly be and revel in pleasure overall, not just sexual pleasure. Life is so demanding nowadays that we often choose quick escapes instead of meaningful exchanges with our partner – therapists included!”

When speaking specifically about Gen Z, she noted that this generation approaches intimacy differently than older generations, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

However, she pointed out that with technology playing such a big role in daily life, it has changed the way people connect and interact with one another—sometimes in ways that make intimacy harder to maintain.

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She continued: “Gen Z have grown up in a time where we’re constantly surrounded by technology.”

“This means they’re seldom bored, and instead of connecting with one another sexually as people might have done in the past, they might turn to their phones for some instant kicks instead. There’s simply so much more to do than just have sex.”

The good news is that there are practical, straightforward ways to bring real intimacy back into relationships, and they don’t require drastic changes to your lifestyle.

For couples looking to strengthen their connection, she suggested: “Reduce stress through cuddling with your partner, and then incorporate more intimate sexual touch.”

“Go on a date night and decide that practicalities are off limits, instead, reminisce about the first time you met and what drew you to one another sexually.”

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